Sunday Funday

Welp.. last night was better that the first night with baby Brees, she is on a two hour sleeping schedule and literally has to go out every two hours. We are glad we know this now because the first night was completely accident oriented. We have on a feeding and sleeping schedule now- much like a baby. However, the night time is what we can't get down pat. We dont want her to mess in her crate and are happy she tells us when she needs to go out but.... we feel like she is controlling us and when will we ever be able to just by pass the whining without there being an accident? Suggestions wanted!